Where Great Game Begins

Well, you're new to this. There is so much stuff for you to learn, so many things for you to draw from.

Where do you start? Well, yeah you gotta read this stuff and yeah, you gotta get some field experience. Other than that, what do you do? For one, you gotta learn how think for yourself, experiment for yourself, make decisions for yourself, and then take advice where you need it. This is how you learn to be a leader. And honestly, women dont want a man that CAN'T lead. But doing those things doesnt only apply to women, but to mASF and life in general. So, back to where you need to start.

#1 and this is most important. Get off the computer and get in the field. Sounds funny when I say it cuz im typing to you on a computer right now, I've even laid a few girls from you're various internet social gathering places. And thats exactly why Im telling you if you cant do it in real life, you definitely have no chance "sarging" online. Trust me, its actually the hardest way to get a girl, I promise(other than possibly in a lesbian bar). Especially when you have 0 field experience to draw from.

Now that I got that out of the way, let me tell you what most guys that are great with women, and this includes naturals and pua's alike, have in common: they're comfortable with women. This is where you want to start at. Forget about eliciting values, trance words, DHV's, routine stacks, and most anything else for awhile. You need to go out and learn to talk to women (this includes opening but at the same time dont focus solely on how to open).

You need to get comfortable talking to women that you dont know well or at all in order to make it as easy as possible to seduce them. But since that doesnt happen over night, you just need to learn how to just open you're mouth and say anything. Learn how to have a normal "non-seducing" conversation. Learn how to be social. Learn how to be cool around people in general. If you can manage this while learning some basic mASF techniques, you'll have an edge that most new guys, and even some guys who've been here a year, dont have.

http://gunwitch.fastseduction.com/

This is the link to Gunwitch Method. It costs nothing but the time it takes to read it. If where you are in learning how to meet women could be considered a baby, then GWM should almost be you're bottle. And it might not completely be for you, but its an easy way to start to get a natural feel for what you're doing. I would also say pay close attention to sexual state in the book and learn how to maintain that on a constant basis.

Another way to naturally attract women in your life is to actually have something going for yourself. If you're poor like me, get off your ass and get a job, or a better job. If you're a poor college student like me, find a way to make some money on the side when you have time on top of getting a PT job, or get girls to take care of you or whatever.

Dont have a car? Save up as much money as you can to get one. Live at home? Work towards moving out. Look for roomates, save up a lil bit of money every week. Maybe even, and it may sound horrible, get an income based apartment till you can get on your feet.

Start lifting weights. Find you a nice 30-40 minute routine you can run through 3 days a week. Start eating healthier. Lose or gain weight to get a better physique. Learn how to play guitar or piano, or even sing, so theres something interesting in youre life other than school work and girls. Even though theres not much more interesting in my life than school work and girls, I dont have the same problems you have, so dont argue, lol.

If you can't dress, spend some money on some nice clothes and shoes. Dont care how you get it, even if its only a piece a week. Get you a nice shave, great haircut, nice cologne. Get you some friends that are great with women, who like to go out, and who are popular, even if they only fit one of those descriptions. One player friend, one party friend, and one cool social friend is enough to learn how to apply each of those qualities to yourself.

Get rid of your loser/girless/average frustrated chump/virgin-not-by-choice friends at least until you're independant enough to do this stuff on youre own regardless of whether or not the encourage or discourage you. Start finding things about yourself that you're good at or are interesting. Learn how to talk about that stuff with other people without being a brag/ass about it.

And defintely learn how to relax. Dont put so much into seeing success immediately and focus more on simply improving, whether it be a little bit at a time or making giant strides.

Everything I said is hard work, sure. But its better than wasting youre life away on the computer, never improving, and wonder why you never get a girl.

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Being successful with women is not about the lines you recite or the moves you make. Any loser can trick a woman into sleeping with him. That doesnt keep him from being a loser.

Its about who you are and where your focus is, not what you do. If youre comfortable with yourself, comfortable with women, and comfortable with being sexual, you ARE the kind of guy that is successful with women.

NVP

The Open Call

(nashvilleplayboy_pua@yahoo.com)

Playboy has his door open... literally, lol.

Any guys who are from the Community(pick-up artists for those who aren't familiar), or who have read THE GAME by Neil Strauss(or any other such material), or who have seen the VH-1 show "The Pick-up Artist" and are practicing on their own, I'm inviting you to Nashville for an all expenses paid, exceptional once in a lifetime coaching opportunity... lol.

Seriously though, I'm not a coach, but anyone interested in the game(preferably good at the game) who wants to go out and meet a few girls or hang out and chat, or whatever, feel free.

I ask only a few small things. One, it is ok to be unsuccessful with women, aka, having no game. It is not ok however, to have no social sense at all, no idea of the concept of fashion, and unable to at least talk (as in communicate like a normal human being) and in a general sense, be a cool person.

Two, I'm poor, lol. So travel, lodging, food, practically all your expenses are on you. If I see that you are at least pretty interesting cool guy, and you're poor like me but still want to come, you can crash on my couch for the weekend.

Three, I am not an exhibit to study. Don't expect to come and have me answer all the 2,481 questions you have about pick up or women or whatever. Also do not expect to sit in a corner and have me do 200 approaches for your amusement, entertainment, learning, etc. I don't mind helping guys who need it, giving advice, or being a wing man. But I'm not a free seminar.

Past that, just tell me that you're interested and leave your email address. We can talk for awhile, and set something up.

nashvilleplayboy_pua@yahoo.com

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Being successful with women is not about the lines you recite or the moves you make. Any loser can trick a woman into sleeping with him. That doesnt keep him from being a loser.

Its about who you are and where your focus is, not what you do. If youre comfortable with yourself, comfortable with women, and comfortable with being sexual, you ARE the kind of guy that is successful with women.

NVP

Being Assertive and Decisive (Trust Me, Its Important)

How are you guys doing? Me, I'm doing fine thanks for asking, yall can be so sweet sometimes. Anyway, I'm Nashvilleplayboy (obviously, from Nashville) and no I'm not a Master pua so I cant train you guys to be awesome seducers (well, I guess I could but still, dont ask, lol). But I do have a new found appreciation for the newer guys as of late, so I'll try to hit some general areas that most new guys need help with for awhile.

I've been reading up on the things that newer guys in the community have questions about and I've been seeing alot of the same thing. "What opener would work best when...? Im in a club and this hot girl looks at me, do I open? How do I open? Is this a shit test? How do deal with this shit test?" And so on and so forth. By the way, I'm not bashing anybody just in case somebody said this specifically. But feel free to read through fastseduction.com/discussion on the beginner board and you'll come to see the same thing that I see. Most of these guys have the same exact issue. So how are opening, shit tests, and everything else all related? They're all dealing with seduction? Lol, yeah thats it, but the issue is with guys being unable to be assertive and making decisions on their own.

I understand that everyone starts somewhere, I at some point and time had alot of the same issues most new guys have. But I tell you that you dont have to come to ASF or me for every single issue you have.

You don't need guys to tell how to make every single move you make to get the girl. You dont need somebody to tell you what to wear. Go to the store, spend some money and buy some cool clothes. You dont need a guy to tell you how to move a girl from the living room to your bedroom. Just tell her to come play x-box with you, or jerk off to porn(joking... or am I?), or whatever it is you do in your bedroom when normal (non target) girls come over and go in your bed room. You dont need a guy to tell you if what she said is a shit test and how to pass it. You shouldnt even take the girl seriously enough to care if its a shit test cuz if you fail, oh well. Theres 3 billion more girls on the planet for you to sarge.

And this isnt about automatically knowing the right answer or thing to do or even common sense. Its about learning how to be self sufficient, how to be comfortable with yourself even when your doing something new, and how to be the "yourself" that girls tell you to be except this is the one that they will actually like. At some point, you need to learn how to make social decisions on your own. Youre gonna have to experiment and see what fits you. You're going to have to learn to be a dominant man in the field without someone telling you specific things to do or say.

All of this isnt to keep you from coming to me or anyone else with questions. I dont really care. All of this is to give you qualities that will make you attractive to women, naturally. And it starts with learning to make up your own mind. You gotta decide for yourself what you want to do. And this in turn will move you into a position to lead. And thats what women want. A man thats a leader. A man that will lead them. A man that will lead them to bed and anywhere else that he wants to go. And although you learn opening, kinosthetics, and isolation, you might not learn how to lead from a message board.


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Being successful with women is not about the lines you recite or the moves you make. Any loser can trick a woman into sleeping with him. That doesnt keep him from being a loser.

Its about who you are and where your focus is, not what you do. If youre comfortable with yourself, comfortable with women, and comfortable with being sexual, you ARE the kind of guy that is successful with women.

NVP