The Keys to Opening

Some guys have trouble opening. Sometimes even guys who've been in the game for awhile. You might always need a flashy or really great opener. Some of you just cant even manage to walk up to the girl to have the opportunity to open. Doesn't particularly matter.

Here's the biggest secret to opening girls. You're opener doesn't even really matter.

The point of an opener and im sure this has probably been said before, is to get you and the target (set, whatever) talking. Thats all you need. You can have the greatest opener in the world and never get anywhere without focusing on getting better at everything that happens after the opener.

Honestly, you start talking to a girl in McDonalds that you've never seen before. Do you honestly think she cares about you're best friend's jealous girl or whether you believe magic spells work or not(yeah, im picking on Neil but just to make a point). I'll answer for you. No. She really doesnt. That nor any other opener are likely to ever get you laid on their own.

Honestly, it doesnt even really matter what you say, so long its halfway interesting enough to just get her to stand there and hear what you're saying. Especially if you're handsome, or have a nice cut and shave, wearing a real cool fit/necklace/belt(aka peacocking as to give her an easy outlet to express interest), and anything thing else that you can easily to make you seem as if you have the possibility of being interesting.

Lol, I know it sound like I'm saying opening is easy. It is. Not every time though. We've all gotten ignored, or that mean looking face like "why is he talking to me", or even called out of our name. But sometimes it goes so smoothly that we wonder why we even worried about the opener. And when you start to see opening as less of a big deal, you realize that your opener doesn't make that much of a difference.

Once you open a few girls and it goes great without having that great opener you can start to focus on getting better at closing girls as opposed to getting better at opening. Its almost the same way with sex. Once you lay a few girls and the sarge goes so smoothly that you wonder why you thought it was hard, you can give that aprehension that you had and focus on getting better.

And believe it or not, closing girls can almost feel easy. It may be extremely hard to get every girl, but if you spend the time in field and gaming girls for more than just 10 minutes and actually try to hold sets and extract targets, you'll come across many that just fall in your lap. And if anything, opening is the same way as sex. Once you approach, you'll run into at least a percentage of girls that are just easy to open.

Once you learn how to flirt and tease girls and lead conversations, the opener wont be what attracts women to you. How you interact with them will.

Opening is by far the easiest thing you can do if you can get past your fear of approaching, or your anxiety, or whatever else. I'm not saying its easy to walk up to women you dont know on a regular basis. What I am saying is that openers will soon be the last thing you think about after approaching enough girls because they're not THAT important.

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Being successful with women is not about the lines you recite or the moves you make. Any loser can trick a woman into sleeping with him. That doesn't keep him from being a loser.

Its about who you are and where your focus is, not what you do. If youre comfortable with yourself, comfortable with women, and comfortable with being sexual, you ARE the kind of guy that is successful with women.

NVP