Being Assertive and Decisive (Trust Me, Its Important)

How are you guys doing? Me, I'm doing fine thanks for asking, yall can be so sweet sometimes. Anyway, I'm Nashvilleplayboy (obviously, from Nashville) and no I'm not a Master pua so I cant train you guys to be awesome seducers (well, I guess I could but still, dont ask, lol). But I do have a new found appreciation for the newer guys as of late, so I'll try to hit some general areas that most new guys need help with for awhile.

I've been reading up on the things that newer guys in the community have questions about and I've been seeing alot of the same thing. "What opener would work best when...? Im in a club and this hot girl looks at me, do I open? How do I open? Is this a shit test? How do deal with this shit test?" And so on and so forth. By the way, I'm not bashing anybody just in case somebody said this specifically. But feel free to read through fastseduction.com/discussion on the beginner board and you'll come to see the same thing that I see. Most of these guys have the same exact issue. So how are opening, shit tests, and everything else all related? They're all dealing with seduction? Lol, yeah thats it, but the issue is with guys being unable to be assertive and making decisions on their own.

I understand that everyone starts somewhere, I at some point and time had alot of the same issues most new guys have. But I tell you that you dont have to come to ASF or me for every single issue you have.

You don't need guys to tell how to make every single move you make to get the girl. You dont need somebody to tell you what to wear. Go to the store, spend some money and buy some cool clothes. You dont need a guy to tell you how to move a girl from the living room to your bedroom. Just tell her to come play x-box with you, or jerk off to porn(joking... or am I?), or whatever it is you do in your bedroom when normal (non target) girls come over and go in your bed room. You dont need a guy to tell you if what she said is a shit test and how to pass it. You shouldnt even take the girl seriously enough to care if its a shit test cuz if you fail, oh well. Theres 3 billion more girls on the planet for you to sarge.

And this isnt about automatically knowing the right answer or thing to do or even common sense. Its about learning how to be self sufficient, how to be comfortable with yourself even when your doing something new, and how to be the "yourself" that girls tell you to be except this is the one that they will actually like. At some point, you need to learn how to make social decisions on your own. Youre gonna have to experiment and see what fits you. You're going to have to learn to be a dominant man in the field without someone telling you specific things to do or say.

All of this isnt to keep you from coming to me or anyone else with questions. I dont really care. All of this is to give you qualities that will make you attractive to women, naturally. And it starts with learning to make up your own mind. You gotta decide for yourself what you want to do. And this in turn will move you into a position to lead. And thats what women want. A man thats a leader. A man that will lead them. A man that will lead them to bed and anywhere else that he wants to go. And although you learn opening, kinosthetics, and isolation, you might not learn how to lead from a message board.


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Being successful with women is not about the lines you recite or the moves you make. Any loser can trick a woman into sleeping with him. That doesnt keep him from being a loser.

Its about who you are and where your focus is, not what you do. If youre comfortable with yourself, comfortable with women, and comfortable with being sexual, you ARE the kind of guy that is successful with women.

NVP