If You Are Not Willing to Risk... You Don't Deserve To Win

I don't know any better way to say it.


I'm not a rich guy. In fact, quite the opposite. Ramen noodles are my best friend. They've stood by and supported every time that I've needed them, whether I was broke, hungry, or anything else(actually, usually JUST when Im broke and hungry). Anyway, I digress(bet you didnt even think I knew what that meant, hah hah you bastards).

I bring up me not having money as an example, a real life example. I've taken the safe route. I took the sure job that fit my schedule that I knew would be easy to keep. I graduated from high school and took the classic off to a university to get a degree route. Even more, in something I dont even really have a passion for. Only did it because it was something I had a knack for and it would make some money.

And you know what it got me?

A sub par college experience and a sub par part time job that barely pays the bills and I hate both with a passion and would rather just get bin laden to bomb them both, lol. Ok, I exaggerate, but heres my point. I took the "sure thing" and the same route that everyone else takes. And it got me the rewards of a low risk "sure thing" and the same thing that everyone else gets.

You cant play it safe and expect to win big. And even more...

If you aren't willing to risk EVERYTHING, then you don't deserve to win.

The most successful guys I've seen, that ive seen in ANYTHING, are successful because they did anything but play it safe. They risked everything they had. Even risked it all and lost. And the next opportunity they had, they risked it all again.

That is the type of person you pretty much have no choice in being if you want to win. And thats in a business, with women, in life in general.

I know in Pick-up, alot of guys fear rejection. They fear walking up to a girl and putting their heart(and their ass) out there and having shoved down their throats. So they take the safest route possible. They buy a girl a drink hoping to impress her. Or the compliment her looks or her shoes hoping to sound suave. Or they use the lamest lines on planet earth because theyre scared that if they show up and just be themselves that they will get laughed at or embarrassed. They do the safest thing possible, they do what everyone else does, they avoid risking being turned away based on who they are.

What kind of sad sh*t is that.

If you cant go out and be comfortable being you and only giving her the choice of liking it or kicking rocks, then you will never deserve to have someone to love you and appreciate you for who you are. I mean, honestly and genuinely appreciate you and see you as special. You can have all the girls in the world, but if you were fake to get them, if were someone who's not you to seduce them, if you lied your way into getting them to like you, does it really mean anything? What happens when you have to drop the charade? You wont be able to keep them. Cant have your ego stroked from success that isn't honestly yours. Even then, success will come so little and so rarely that its not success. Its at best, mediocracy.

Watch the guys who go out and have fun and are direct and up front. They dont play scared. They go after what they want. They don't worry about losing. They don't worry about about failing. They don't worry about embarrassment. They don't care, because they know that sooner or later, as long as they keep at it, they will get what they want.

And thats what a winner is. Regardless of what might happen if you fail, regardless of how many times you do fail, you go after what you want until you get it. If you want to be great with women, stop letting them shake you. Playing scared is the same as losing is the same as buying a drink to buy some attention is the same as taking her out to dinner to buy her affection is the same as complimenting her to try to make her like you.

Play the game... %100, every time, no room to be scared. Anything less and you might as well not play.

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Being successful with women is not about the lines you recite or the moves you make. Any loser can trick a woman into sleeping with him. That doesnt keep him from being a loser.

Its about who you are and where your focus is, not what you do. If youre comfortable with yourself, comfortable with women, and comfortable with being sexual, you ARE the kind of guy that is successful with women.