A Very Important Lesson About Living Life

What can you learn from Virginia Tech... and no I'm not plugging for them.

33 kids woke up one morning content with the fact that it was going to be just another day. Those 33 kids didnt get to chance to wake up another morning. Do you think if those kids had known a month ago that they were gonna die that week, they wouldve spent that month pounding out their days doing the same old thing? Probably living a life they didnt even want to live. Going to school to get a degree to do something they didnt even want to do. Putting what they want on hold to do the things things they were supposed to do.

This is gonna sound cold but, those kids are gone and as sad as that is, theres not a thing anyone can do about it. But I can guarantee that if they had known it was gonna happen, they would have lived life alot differently.

I know this sounds like some BS high school guidance counselor crap. Im not that guy. What I want to tell you is, you gotta start living your life like you wont always be here. Dont be the guy who's 70 yrs old, laying on his deathbed, looking back on his life, and cant honestly be satisfied with everything he's done. I want you guys to take a long hard look at yourselves. You have to start figuring out what you want. Not what other people tell you to want. Not what society tells you to want. Not what would make other people happy. Not what would just get you by or pay the bills, not what would give you a ton of money to get crap you dont want or need.

Figure out what you honestly want. From PU, from your women, from your life, and for yourself. And I want you to go after that. If you have to quit your job, if you have to work a crappy one, if you have to quit school, if you have to go to school, do it. If you have to piss off your parents, your friends, your gf, whatever, to do the things you honestly want, then they'll just have to be pissed off for awhile. Man, you guys have to start living for yourself and making your own way. And you cant waste time doing it because honestly, you dont know how much time you have.

And when you figure out what you want, and chase that regardless of what others do or say, you set an example for others and you'll be more satisfied with yourself and your life than any dollar sign, and HB, and amount of stuff, than anything can make you.

And when you learn to do what you want and make a way to be successful, you need to share that with success with others. And this way, not only do you change your life, you change the life of others.

Why is this important? Because this is being a leader. And I know you're probably getting tired of hearing it. I dont care. You need it.

We come here searching for the secret to get women. The right techniques, the right lines, the right methods, the right moves... we come here to learn how to do what we want. But that shouldnt apply only to women, that should apply to life. Alot of lesson learned from what we do here transfer over into other parts of our life. Its the same with being a leader. But when you learn to lead in every other aspect of your life, people naturally follow.

Women naturally follow.

Get off your ass, learn to live the life you want and show other people they can be happy doing the same, and having the woman that you want in your life will cease to become an issue. How to get rid of the women that you dont want, will.

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Being successful with women is not about the lines you recite or the moves you make. Any loser can trick a woman into sleeping with him. That doesn't keep him from being a loser.

Its about who you are and where your focus is, not what you do. If you're comfortable with yourself, comfortable with women, and comfortable with being sexual, you ARE the kind of guy that is successful with women.

NVP