Theres a phrase that suggests that a womans sexual preference and her general demeanor and social behavior are completely unrelated, or at least thats the gist of it.
I've heard it referred to as madonna/whore complex...
I call it... real life.
Honestly.
I meet women all the time who pretend to be soooo innocent. Not even seem, they are generally innocent in their behavior and thought processes.
And they're freaks. They love sex, even "slap my ass, pull my hair, and call me dirty".
How does this apply to you? So kind of you to ask.
Never at any point in any interaction with any woman should you ever be afraid to display some intent. Every woman at some point in time(usually all day long) WANTS TO BE DESIRED AS A WOMAN.
I'll break down what that means. How do you define a writer? By his literature. How do you define a musician? By his music. How do you define an artist? By his works. How do you define a woman?
By her sexuality.
It is far from counter-intuitive. There's no confusing outrageous social programming that can hide this simple fact.
Why am I telling you this? Man, you ask all the right questions.
One of the biggest issues men have in their interactions with women is that men are scared to express or even imply some sexual interest in a woman.
Yeah, we always see those drunk guys in bars slobbering all over some chick who shoots him down. That isn't the same thing. Thats just the guy making an ass out of himself.
Have you ever wondered why as a pick-up artist, you never see anyone else out doing daygame? Its an amazing realization isn't it? We are practically the only guys doing daygame. Everyone else is out doing their daily routine or WITH THEIR SOCIAL CIRCLE. No guys are really out there approaching women. You almost never see it.
Why?
Because men are afraid of women, men are afraid of expressing some sexual intent, men are afraid and insecure.
Women on the other hand, sexual creatures that they are, WANT TO BE DESIRED AS A WOMAN, even the most innocent and sweetest of girls. In fact, that is the only reason why a pickup artist is successful with women. Its not magic. Its not the lines. Its not gimmicks. Its the fact that women in general DESIRE MEN and feel a need to be sexually desired and possessed themselves.
Its practically every woman. A girl(who happens to have a serious long-term relationship with another girl) tells me, "I don't usually sleep with boys ever so this is weird for me..."
She's talking about wanting me...
Lol.
With that in mind, why would you EVER be uncomfortable with being sexual with a woman?
There is no good reason. Women want to be had.
Have at them.
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Being successful with women is not about the lines you recite or the moves you make. Any loser can trick a woman into sleeping with him. That doesn't keep him from being a loser.
Its about who you are and where your focus is, not what you do. If you're comfortable with yourself, comfortable with women, and comfortable with being sexual, you ARE the kind of guy that is successful with women.
NVP
About Me
- Nashville Playboy
- I'm me... lol. A very laid back and relaxed guy, born and raised in Nashville, Tn. I have a variety of interests ranging from music to women... ok, almost exclusively music and women. I like to hit the gym, sing, read(even that one is new to me), and as some would call me: Pick-up Artist.
Saturday, March 8, 2008
Horny Until Proven Innocent
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Being successful with women is not about the lines you recite or the moves you make. Any loser can trick a woman into sleeping with him. That doesn't keep him from being a loser.
Its about who you are and where your focus is, not what you do. If you're comfortable with yourself, comfortable with women, and comfortable with being sexual, you ARE the kind of guy that is successful with women.
NVP
Posted by Nashville Playboy at 4:28 PM
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2 comments:
"With that in mind, why would you EVER be uncomfortable with being sexual with a woman?"
This is something I've asked myself as I become a better man (or playboy? lol). There are few things more unappealing to women than a guy who's uncomfortable with his (and her) sexuality. Working at a women's clothing store helps though :)
Regards,
Harold
I know right. You'd think it would be something in the front of our minds. Its usually after going out over and over that you come to a really simple conclusion that could have saved you alot of time.
THESE are those conclusions.
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